ironhorse_iv
This movie was kinda heartwarming when it comes to the two main characters, Bob Rueland (David Duchovny) & Grace Briggs (Minnie Driver). I like, how although, the two main characters, are both unaware of the connection they have, with each other, due to a heart transplanted; yet they treat each other, with respect. It's nice to see both characters acts fairly normal. It's so unlike, the more recent romantic comedies that go way over-the-top, with its nearly unlikeable two leads. It's also really nice, not to hear: dumb yelling, screaming, or any mean-spirited comments, before they hook up in the end. It makes the relationship seem, so much, more realistic. Director Bonnie Hunt really knows, how real relationship, honestly works. This is one of the main reasons, why I wanted to return to this film. I know, a lot of critics, have stated out that the film is somewhat tame, predictable, forgettable, bland, and full of clichés. I do kinda agree with them, yet, in my opinion, the film also shows the most realistic portrayal of what real-life 30 something dating is like. In many ways, most true love-effects in real-life, are often; this bland-looking. Yes, I know every love story needs a strong conflict, or it would be, alienating, too mushing or not that entertaining. However, I did like, this movie's unique concept, even if the idea wasn't that strong. The idea that the tragic death of one person can still save the life of another is very interesting. Though, I do agree with the critics, that movie's central conflict with the heart is really no reason, for somebody to have the third act, break up for. I do have to say, regardless of that, the two characters are very likable. David Duchovny is very lovely, as the over-depressed widow trying to get over the death of his wife. I like, how the movie doesn't really, go really overboard with his depression. Still, I would like to see, more signs of it. I was really hoping for a more, 'he stop truly living', kinda of a tone. Also, I think the character needed to be, a little more flesh out, because the whole perfect guy with a heart of gold, feel was a bit, much to take in. For Grace Briggs, Minnie Driver is a beautiful and charming actress. She really does, delivered that, girl next door innocent look, very well. I also love the idea that she suffers from Survivor Guilt. It makes her character, so much more complex. However, I never, really got to understand, if she truly loves Bob, or if that's just her heart, doing that. I know, what the heart wants, the heart gets, but the whole contrived coincidence was a bit impractical. I also didn't really like, the whole spiritualism metaphor side of that in this film. The film makes it seem like Minnie Driver's character was possession by a dead woman's ghost. That's just too creepy! Anyways, like other rom-coms, these characters are often, surrounded by a number of key characters, such as the best friends, Megan Dayton (Bonnie Hunt) & Charlie Johnson (David Allen Grier) who has nothing, better to do, then help their friends, get laid. I can understand, why Charlie would do that, but Megan? She already knew that Grace got her plane ticket to Italy in advance for her painting career. So why would, she help set up a date, here in the States if she knows that Grace will be leaving, soon? It doesn't make any sense. Still, the actors did OK with their limited roles. By far, the best supporting actors in the film are Carroll O'Connor & Robert Loggia. They have some of the best scenes in the film. I couldn't stop, smiling, whenever, they were on screen. Sad to see this, as Carroll O'Connor's final film before his death the following year. The music that this movie use, are pretty memorable as well. I have to say, that the montage set to Frank Sinatra's "At Long Last Love", was wonderful. Overall: While, Return to me might have an unbelievable premise. It's still sweet and romantic enough, not to pay too much attention on it. In my opinion, it's a lovely film that deserve, another look. Return to it.
klb4556
I'm one of those women who usually skips love stories; to be honest, I haven't found that many I can tolerate. These days they're all so cheesy and sappy and predictable, the acting leaves much to be desired... etc. I first saw this movie when I was an early teen, and I'm now in my 20's, and it's still probably my favorite movie. I don't even know where to begin praising this, but here I go. Bonnie Hunt, who also has a lead, directed this film, and I couldn't think more of her talent after seeing it. Her character is lovable; that family member who keeps everyone calm and in one piece. I LOVED the boisterous, comical Irish family- they make you want to be part of it. The acting by Minnie Driver and David Duchovny, alike were amazing, flawless performances. You can really feel all of Bob's pain, but also sincerity at finding love again when he finally realizes he's up to trying. Minnie's talent shows through as always; her accent was also flawless, didn't catch one English slip throughout the whole film, she's a pro at it by now! I ( and I'm sure many women) will be able to see a little of themselves in Grace. This movie makes you smile, laugh, cry, and if you're in any way religious, it really tugs at your heart, and tells you that sometimes, things aren't just "coincidence". The best facet of this film is it's totally unique plot, how two people find each other in such an amazing, endearing and life altering way. And the best part is, when you watch it over and over, you notice things that are very heart-wrenching but also beautiful.This movie exemplifies the way love should happen, when you know, you know. And some people are just meant to be.
